Whether your boyfriend is gone or the signs are in the air, you’ll want to know the best gifts to give your boyfriend when things aren’t going so well. The first thing to remember is that you really can’t buy love. Don’t even try to buy his affections or win back his goodwill by buying a truly inappropriate gift for this stage of your relationship.
So what are the ground rules for buying gifts to bring your boyfriend back to his senses?
Do not overdo it
This is the number one rule that you cannot afford to forget. Going overboard will be seen as an act of desperation and may have an unwanted impact that you ultimately don’t want. Keep the gift appropriate for the stage of your relationship. If you’ve been married for 20 years, your gift should be different than if you’ve been dating for 2 months. Simple is best in times like these because no matter what you think, you’re not going to buy it back if it’s already gone mentally. It will take something clever to turn its head instead of something with a high price tag.
Don’t expect the gift to change things
You’ve spent hours sifting through catalogs looking for gifts for your boyfriend to take back with you from Never Never Land, where he seems to be spending a lot of quality time these days, and you’re devastated that he doesn’t like the gift. get out of it and bring it back to you gladly. First of all, when a relationship is on its way to breaking up, you are putting a lot of pressure on the gift to make changes.
Don’t give gifts without a good reason.
In other words, if it’s not Christmas, some other gift-giving holiday, or his birthday, don’t even consider the idea of gifts for your boyfriend. It is definitely the wrong answer. Remember, you can’t buy love from him and giving gifts for no reason is a big sign to him that you’re getting desperate. You want to maintain a position of power in the relationship dynamic as much as possible.
Choose suitable gifts for the occasion
Consider the occasion before you buy and find gifts that fit the spirit of the season. Also remember that if he leaves, these will be gifts he takes with him, so don’t buy him a new TV or recliner if you think he plans to leave. Christmas gifts should be bigger than anniversary or birthday gifts, but should be discreet if you need to leave.