How long should you keep a man in chastity for the first time?

The first time a man is in chastity is, for him, an emotionally tumultuous moment that women must be understanding.

But this does not mean that we should be merciful or kind.

In fact, you may be surprised to find out that it’s actually SO essential to give him more of what he wants…

Three secrets for a man’s first time in chastity

1. make sure he understands prior to chastity begins this is for real. ok it is a game, but the have to know if he wants you to play with him, then he has to play by your rules.
2. Make sure you are safe and that the device is not causing physical injury. That’s why it’s a good idea to get him used to the device on his own terms and in his own time. Just tell him,”Take all the time you want to get used to it, because I don’t want those braces until I know I can keep you in strict orgasm denial for as long as I feel like I want, even if it’s months, a year, or more.“.
3. Be understanding of their needs, discomfort, and frustration.. But don’t take responsibility for them. After all, you are giving her what he asked for and she has gone into this with her eyes wide open. I can tell you without fear of being wrong, if you are ‘nice’ and give her the relief that she is telling you that now wants; later, he will say that you should have been stricter with him. it happens this way each time, so DON’T give up because he I will not do it Thank you for this!
4. Twice the time you requested.. Meaning, if he has told you that he wants to experience a month of orgasm denial, then refuse to play unless he agrees to two months. The reason for this is NOT just so you can be a bitch. Male chastity is also hard work for a woman, and men will always think of something that they know is within their means. But the point of male chastity is, in part, to give a man that hot, desperate feeling of needing an orgasm, and the best way to do that is to demand something beyond what he thinks he can handle. Personally, I now believe that if a woman is starting a new relationship with a man, she could do worse than insist that he is never allowed to orgasm with her except once, so that she always knows what she is missing.

I understand if you think all of the above is pretty harsh and draconian – both men and women on first reading may think it’s too much.

but you have to remember a lot of men really want this, and by giving it to them, we are giving them what they want; what’s more, we also get many, many benefits, benefits that we wouldn’t experience if we were too soft and forgiving with them.

Let me share something with you, something very personal.

When my husband, John, and I started male chastity, I wasn’t too sure about it.

And the first times we went a few weeks, maybe a month, I don’t remember exactly.

But then before we knew it… we had up to 3 months, and then we were aiming for a whole year, which is where we are now.

But with what we’ve learned, we’ve both decided after this year (and maybe even sooner, because I still have to decide) your orgasm denial will be permanent.

We’ve discovered strict Y properly applied Tease and Denial, as well as other things you can do for me, make her orgasm unnecessary.

Now, not everyone is going to want permanent orgasm denial, but it shows you what’s possible if you want something and are open-minded enough to try it.

But the problem is, it’s hard to find any sensible, sensible, and realistic information about male chastity, thanks to all the fantasists and wannabes out there.

As with anything, if you want good advice, it pays to listen to those who walk the path rather than just talk in exciting but unlikely and sometimes impossible ways.