As with most things in life, relationships either work or they don’t. Sometimes it’s because the two people involved just don’t adjust and decide to quit. Other times, even though the two people love each other, the relationship still falls apart. If you fall into the latter category, then take heart, because it is possible to win your ex back.
Relationships are not good and last a long time alone; A lot of effort must be put into them to make them happy for the couple involved. Yes, they are individuals, but they have to work together all the time for a relationship to work well.
If you really want your ex back, there are a few things you need to do. Sit down and think a lot about your time together. Did you communicate all the time? Also, was there a proper give and take between you and your ex? If your answer was negative to both things, then it is time to fix them, if you want to have a chance to get back together.
Communication is vital in a relationship. Although you know each other very well and love each other deeply, there are times when you HAVE to talk about things. This is especially true when it comes to something that makes them unhappy or angry.
Unless you read minds, there is no way you can tell if your partner is unhappy if you don’t talk about it. If the problem is discussed immediately, then it can be discussed and fixed immediately, without starting an argument. Make a firm decision to talk about problems all the time. If your ex finds out that you are willing to do this, you could win your ex back.
If all the give and take in the relationship came from your ex, then it’s no wonder your ex broke up with you. Everything was in your favor in the relationship, and this probably made your ex feel bad. It probably made your ex feel like nothing he said or did was important enough, it had to be his way or no way.
Get in touch with your ex and tell them that you are more than willing to compromise and communicate in the future, all the time. Tell him that you love him too much and that you don’t want to go through life without him. If it’s a fifty percent relationship that will make you happy, then it will. Let your ex think about it and if they agree, you could win your ex back.