There are many types of dating websites on the Internet, but the most popular are adult dating sites where there are no restrictions on nudity, sexuality, or fantasies. While these dating sites are liberating for open-minded people, the question remains whether they offer a serious way to find love and romance.
One of the big problems with a regular dating website like match.com or eharmony.com is the fact that they censor nudity and overt sexual expressions of their members. In the case of eharmony.com, the focus is on personality matches. While personality and characters are important aspects of a successful relationship, what is even more important is sexual attraction and sexual compatibility.
As a relationship expert, I have worked with many of my clients whose relationships have failed because their sex life has diminished over time. How many times have you heard people say that the best way to end your sex life is to get married? Sex or the lack of it is one of the main causes of broken relationships, cheating or extramarital affairs.
Sexual compatibility is determined by many different factors. First impressions matter a lot, but the basis of sexual attraction goes far beyond that first face-to-face encounter. While you may be attracted to someone because you think they are beautiful, the attraction will likely fade over time unless there is sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility is determined by the sexual fantasies shared by two people, just like hobbies, personality, or interests.
So if sexual compatibility is so important, why don’t dating websites place more importance on this topic when looking for potential partners? The reason may be as simple as online censorship, where anything containing nudity is quickly categorized into the adult or x-rated category. Fortunately, an increasing number of dating websites are focusing more on issues of sexuality and sensuality. These dating sites offer the best of both worlds, allowing members to explore physical attraction, personality compatibilities while exploring common sexual fantasies, fetishes, and aspects.