Do you remember how it felt to be chased by a man you love? It is one of the most exciting feelings a woman can feel… You feel beautiful, desirable, and it gives you clear signs that this man is interested in you.
But when the man you love is no longer chasing you, no matter how good your relationship is, you feel that something must be wrong. And as time goes by, you feel more and more insecure about his interest, leading to further problems in your relationship.
Therefore, knowing how to get him to chase you again is the best thing you can do for yourself and the man you love. Once you know how to get him to chase you again, you’ll relax, he’ll be energized and happy, and your relationship will blossom and shine again.
So the first thing you need to understand is why a man chases a woman and why a man stops chasing a woman. This way, you can stop doing the things that discourage a man from pursuing you and do more of the things that motivate him to pursue you again.
To understand this, we need to look at history. The reason why men chase women is because hunting is in their blood. Modern men are descendants of cavemen, who hunted animals for fun and food. So chasing women is just another form of hunting, which men love for the thrill. Also, when you win the heart of an attractive woman, she feels that she has won a prize. Winning an award gives her that irreplaceable feeling of accomplishment, because she has successfully proven herself to you.
Did you know that your love and acceptance give him an indicator of how attractive, capable and a good man he is?
Now, since men love to chase a woman, why does he stop after a while?
One of the reasons a man stops pursuing a woman is because once you’re in a committed relationship with him, a part of him feels like he’s achieved his goal. He has won your heart and now he wants to leave the care of the relationship to you.
However, the main reason a man stops chasing a woman is because he doesn’t feel right chasing you anymore.
Every time a man shares his achievements with you, he is subconsciously trying to impress you. If you take his successes and achievements for granted, or ignore them, he is deeply hurt. Although he doesn’t say anything about it, every time you don’t admire his actions, he becomes less and less motivated to try to impress or chase you. And because he may have done it unconsciously, not knowing how much his actions or non-actions have hurt him, over time, his injuries accumulate and he stops trying altogether, so he no longer you need to feel so hurt.
Are you beginning to see a way to get him to chase you again?
Start by praising and acknowledging more of their efforts and achievements.
Men use actions to express their love. So when you notice him doing something, out of love for you, thank him and appreciate it… and notice how differently he responds to you.
Soon, he will start doing more and more for you and start chasing you again. But remember: you must give him some time to adjust to the changes in your relationship. Don’t scold him and don’t tell him what to do. Either he is motivated to pursue you, or he is not. So he starts motivating him to chase you again by telling him that you appreciate everything he does.
Did you know that it’s much easier to be in a happy relationship when you understand why men do the things they do? Because often, even when a man stops chasing a woman, it’s not because he doesn’t love you anymore… he just doesn’t know how to explain to you how his mind works.