If that “spark” is gone from your sex life and you’re looking for something extra to put it back on, then your search is over. In this article, I’m going to share with you some of my time-honored, romantic, creative foreplay ideas to get you and your partner out of your rut and start enjoying sex again.
Idea #1: Red Gold
The roses are fantastic. Not only do we all have a pretty strong association with sex when we think of red roses, but you can also use them in powerful and creative ways in the bedroom.
One of my favorite things to do is go to my local flower shop and pick up some rose petals and a couple of red roses. Remove the sheets from your bed and sprinkle the petals on the bed. It’s quick and easy and you’ve just created an incredible backdrop for a night of sensual lovemaking. Add some soft music and some nice incense, plus a bottle of wine and you’ve just set the perfect mood for a night of steamy hot passion.
If you’re feeling more creative, you can even use the petals to write a message. For bonus points, you can write words with petals of one color and use petals of different colors as a “backdrop”. Personally, I find doing this makes me almost not want to mess it up, but if I ever (God forbid) wanted to propose, that’s probably how I would do it.
Idea #2: Fruity
Sex, and especially foreplay, requires a fairly active sense of touch to fully appreciate the benefits it offers. To get you and your partner’s touch receptors working again, why not try playing a game? One of you closes your eyes (or wears a blindfold), while the other uses various accessories to reawaken that dormant sense of touch. You can try passing fruits like berries or slices of various fruits down your lover’s body, eventually into their mouth where they can savor the flavor. For added effect, try licking up the juices it leaves behind and alternate between using the fruit and your finger or genitals.
Idea #3: Sensitive
Another great game to play blindfolded, it requires you to have some useful accessories that you can use for stimulation. Feather tickling, your fingers, and your tongue are always a sure hit, while other couples might like to experiment with vibrators, candle wax, paddles, whips, ice cubes—whatever gets your blood racing. This is particularly good when you use the opposite stimulation in quick succession or together, for example, running an ice cube across your partner’s nipples, then running your warm tongue over the cold area to warm it up.
If you follow these tips tonight, I guarantee you’ll soon be back to having more passion and excitement in your sex life—and in your relationship—than you ever thought possible.