Apart from requests for wealth, prosperity and debt relief, the most common spells people request are love spells. Every day I received questions from clients and potential clients about how to win back a lover, how to keep a partner faithful, and how to bring the passion back into a relationship.
As human beings, it is normal to want to be loved. In fact, along with food and shelter, the need for love and company is essential for the healthy psychological and emotional development of the human being. No wonder people are willing to do anything and pay anything to win the love of someone special.
But do love spells work? Well yes and no. It depends on numerous factors. A reputable spell caster should explain to you how their particular magic system works and give you instructions on the do’s and don’ts of manipulating the energy to your advantage. However, if you ask someone to cast a love spell on you and they guarantee it will work, run the other way. There is no such thing as 100% effective magic, and I am about to tell you why.
Many people don’t understand that magic is a co-creative process that requires you to work in partnership with the Universe to ensure success. This is why I never guarantee any voodoo love spell you perform. I can’t control what you do or don’t do. The only control I have is over myself and the actual ritual I perform. How you think, feel, believe and behave is up to you; however, these dynamics have a lot to do with the success or failure of any voodoo love spell.
To help you understand why love spells and voodoo love spells often fail, I have created a list of the top ten reasons why love spells don’t work. These reasons apply whether you cast the spell yourself or someone else does it for you.
1. You have unrealistic expectations. If you live in Picayune, Mississippi, and you’re casting a spell to make Criss Angel love you, well, your chances of success are pretty slim… especially if you’ve never met the guy! To begin with, there must be a strong connection to the person and a foundation from which love can be nurtured and awakened. Also, love spells do not work overnight. Magick is often a process that involves removing obstacles and clearing unwanted influences, and realigning and maneuvering energies to affect change for the best possible outcome.
2. Magic is not guaranteed. Just as prayers to the creator can go seemingly unanswered, there may be a reason why a spell doesn’t work. It may be that the Universe has different plans for you. This reason is very difficult for some people to accept.
3. You are taking shortcuts. To be a powerful and effective conjurer, you must have the right tools, focus, and mindset. Power results from the use of traditional ingredients such as roots, oils, and powders, from the use of traditional tools such as candles and a knife, from performing powerful ritual techniques such as those handed down in voodoo tradition for thousands of years, and from having a traditional altar or workspace.
4. You doubt the power of magic and don’t “believe” in your own personal power. Magic systems are faith based. If you don’t believe in the possibility of changing energy and in your ability to attract certain energy your way, and if you don’t believe in the power of Spirits that you may be asking a favor, you are wasting your time and money. .
5. You are stalking and/or harassing your desired partner. Do not threaten or terrorize, try to coerce or intimidate, or start calling or emailing your desired lover. Doing so will reverse any spells cast on your behalf. You need to create and allow space for the right energies to align and work in your favor.
6. You are being scammed. Without exception, this is the most common reason why love spells don’t work. You have paid someone to perform a spell and they never do what they were paid to do, nor did they intend to do what they were paid to do. Unfortunately, there are many people out there who are just waiting to take advantage of your emotional grievance and despair. A real professional will discuss your situation with you and assess your expectations and likelihood of success. They will give you an honest assessment of your application and will not accept your money if there is little chance that the spell will work.
7. You do not provide complete and accurate information to the spell caster. An authentic practitioner will request your requests in a formal ritual on your behalf based on the information you provide. If you don’t provide the correct information, or if you lie about the situation and expect the practitioner to “magically” make your ex fall in love with you again (even if you were abusive, for example), the spell will not work and may actually be counterproductive. Spirits are not stupid and do not welcome attempts to trick or manipulate them. Voodoo spirits are exceptionally powerful and enthusiastic about such mischief, and you’ll have no one to blame but yourself if you end up the exact opposite of what you wanted.
8. You are obsessed with your love spell or voodoo love spell. Obsession is fueled by despair. These feelings attract negativity and will weaken any spell cast.
9. Does not address the underlying obstacles or problems. Many times there are unwanted influences creating an obstacle for the union or reunion of two people. These obstacles can be external, such as other people, or internal, such as a lack of confidence or self-esteem. A clearing of some kind must always be done to clear the way for the Divine energies to do their work.
10. You talk about the spell with others. Under no circumstances should you discuss your spell with anyone under any conditions. Doing so will weaken the power of the spell and in essence create an obstacle that wasn’t there to begin with.
Remember that voodoos, root workers and spell casters of all kinds do not work miracles, they are not gods or goddesses. Practitioners vary in skill and experience and even the most skilled and experienced spell casters will not have a 100% success rate. Jimmy Page is considered one of the greatest guitarists that ever lived; however, even he hits wrong notes at times. In fact, he hits the wrong notes most of the time. But that doesn’t make him any less skilled as a guitarist and songwriter, nor has it been an obstacle to his extreme and legendary success.
So if you want your love spell to be successful, be sure to address the top ten reasons why they commonly fail and behave and believe accordingly. Have respect for Spirits who are willing and able to help, and be patient and accept the space between you and your desired lover for now to ensure the best possible outcome.